All in Vulnerability

How To Go to Counselling Part I: Preparing for counselling

One of my favourite things about being a counsellor is working with folks who have never been to counselling before. I am always so jazzed (and in awe) that people take such a big leap of faith and make it into the office. I know from experience that it can be terrifying and terribly vulnerable to step into a room with a stranger and tell them about what’s going on. So how do you get ready for that?

Practicing Body Positivity

This time of year can be pretty tricky when it comes to what it’s like to be a body in the world.  It’s hard not to notice the ‘get a beach body now!’ messages popping up on magazine covers and hear people shaming themselves for eating ice cream. It’s also been heartening to see some pushback (especially on the internet) about this - things like memes about having a ‘bikini body’ (spoiler: have a body, put a bikini on it). 

Brené Brown Facilitator Training: A Snapshot of my Experience

For the last few years, I have talked a lot about Brené Brown. I mean A LOT.

But to be fair, everyone seems to know who she is. For example, while getting my tattoo work on, I’m telling my tattooist about a training I’m going to in Houston. I ask, “do you know Brené Brown?” Without skipping a beat, he says, “is that the lady who talked about vulnerability on a Ted Talk?”. To be fair, he’s pretty much a therapist but the point is: Brené has become a household name…